In The Name Of Love
By. Biffon
Momanyi
Although sex may be more common than
love at university, there’s still a peculiar form of romance in campus. In
between sleeping together and becoming an official couple lies a gulf of
misunderstanding, emotions and varying degrees of intimacy. Many students
loiter in this no-man’s-land for much of their studies.
Campus is one of the societies with
rare cases of true love. Some students believe that the so called love is part
of the core objective of being in campus only to be proved wrong by the so
called focused students who know that they can only tackle an agenda/objective
at a time.
While
some of the students who believe in campus love say that they like to choose
between tall and short, black and white, others don’t even know how to describe
what LOVE is, some say that to them love is a mystery and they just find
themselves entangled in it.
Recent
death cases in several universities with Egerton University holding the latest
Death in the LOVE TRIANGLE has left
More than a question and anger in minds of many. A female student was brutally
murdered by her partner for issues relating to love affairs, this comes a few
months after another female student was attacked and killed by her ex-boyfriend
in Moi University West Campus in the same LOVE
TRIANGLE.
While
such cases are becoming rampant in universities, the question is, why do you
have to kill just in the name of LOVE? As a matter of fact this are issues
begging for immediate actions from the authority, both local and national
governments should impose measures to curb such incidents.
Killing
doesn’t solve but make things worse than you ever thought. The power of speech
between couples can serve better in disagreements. Never let LOVE be a mystery
and find yourself entangled in it without your consent, that way you might be
taking your first wrong turn in life, also try know your partner more than you
do know yourself.
The “friends with benefits” thing should
not shake your legs and land you into unexpected relationship, keep in mind
that love is nothing but a critical emotion of strong attraction. I therefore
advocate for official relationships if they must happen, otherwise don’t let
your emotions over speed your mind.